Founders Story

As they say, be the change you wish to inspire.

My name is Kabir Wats. I’m a coach for men, and I teach my clients how to become and stay what I call a 360 Alpha and enjoy the ultimate quality of life. I’m a serial entrepreneur and investor driven by my passions.

There is a difference between trying to guess at the right path with limited knowledge and having walked the path with experience. Through my life experiences, I have learned what yields success and 360-degree self-fulfillment and what has failed.

HARD TIMES

I was married, from age 23 to 29, to my college sweetheart, whom I met during my business studies in the U.S. I then went through a divorce, which was a highly stressful and challenging period, and a failed business partnership at the same time. Unsurprisingly, my trust was severely broken. Trust is the backbone of any personal or professional relationship; without it, there can be no respect, love, or success.

I lost my father suddenly not too long after that. My father was a leader with a larger-than-life and magnanimous character who was naturally gifted at attracting people. He was always well respected for his integrity, loyalty, and actions. He taught me much about being a leader and a man, and I love and miss him dearly.

WOMEN, DATING, AND RELATIONSHIPS

Divorce at a young age was a rebirth for me. I was suddenly thrown back into being single after many years. This part of my life was a genuinely enlightening period. As I navigated a new reality, I found myself thrown back to the start of interacting with women.

I went through several dating experiences, relationships, and breakups.

I’ve had an American wife, Indian, Russian, and Moroccan girlfriends, and also dated women from all over the world.

As any man should, I saw each experience as an opportunity to learn, grow, and master myself.

Going from one experience to the next, I practiced how to interact with all types of women. I began to understand what women are universally attracted to and what they universally reject.

I started discovering the fundamentals of what created and kept attraction and the subtle art of communicating with women.

I realized that certain fundamentals that result in success across your life also applied to having success with women.

After growing an air of confidence, everything became smooth and clear to me.

I was able to lead my interactions to where I wanted. I realized that attracting women is an art, which meant shifting my mindset so that I could understand the entire philosophy of attraction.

Once you master the fundamentals of attraction, which I can help you with, you will realize that you aren’t playing any games with women. There is no black-and-white rule book you should follow as some so-called experts might suggest. On the contrary, you will learn how to show up naturally as a man, putting forward the best version of yourself in any interaction with a woman. This way, you will get what you want and deserve.

What I understood was that as soon as you start interacting with women, you are negotiating. I quickly realized that to negotiate in the best way, you have to reflect a position of strength.

In order to reflect a position of strength as seamlessly and effortlessly as possible, it is best to have first built a position of strength in your life.

Building a position of strength means focusing on making yourself whole and fulfilled as a man, pursuing what you love to do, and creating the continued freedom to live the life you want. This is the place from which you can easily draw your inner strength.

MASTERING MYSELF PHYSICALLY

Up until age 29, I was overweight and not controlling my diet, standing at almost 5 feet, 10 inches (178 centimeters) and weighing in at 93 kilograms (205 pounds). Today at age 33, I’m 72 kilograms (159 pounds) with 8 percent body fat and am in the best shape of my life.

I’m very active physically, regularly training in the gym, as well as being an advanced practitioner of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, a grappling-based martial art. I’m incredibly passionate about the sport, and the passion behind it has driven my persistence.

There is a concept known as ‘flow rolling’ in Jiu-Jitsu, which drives the idea of going with the flow while you move, always evolving with a changing dynamic.

Not long after starting Jiu-Jitsu, I realized how this philosophy of going with the flow applied to, and would drive my success in, other areas of my life.

I keep a natural and whole-foods-based diet that is well balanced. It works best for my body type and frame, as it focuses on achieving optimal body composition.

Mastering my physical well-being had a direct impact on my mental well-being. With my diet and training, I keep things simple. I stick to fundamentals that are based on longevity that have proven to work for me.

I can only preach what I practice.

WORK AND INVESTING

After my business management degree in the U.S., I went to London to work in a wholesale oil business, Mabanaft, part of the Marquard & Bahls group, for two years. I proceeded to work in a private real estate investment firm in London and started an investment vehicle that invested in U.S. real estate, particularly in Las Vegas. I have since been back in Dubai, UAE, where I have been involved in various other startup business ventures.

As an advanced practitioner of grappling and Jiu-Jitsu, I am also currently creating a lifestyle merchandise company.

I have invested in public equities throughout my work life and mainly focused on the U.S. stock markets. I have a strong passion for “Value Investing,” an investment philosophy that some of the world’s best investors adopt.

Through years of running and investing in small startups and public businesses, I have come to understand the fundamentals of finding professional and investing success.

I aim to simplify the approach for you and guide you through the fundamentals to help you succeed. 

WHY I HAVE WRITTEN A BOOK AND OPENED THIS COMPANY

My challenging experiences spawned 360-degree changes across my life. I am super grateful for them, as they shaped the man I am today. The amazing success I saw across my life, through the action and practice of certain fundamentals I learned and continue to engage with, inspired me to help others in need. I wanted to put it all together for you in one place.

I was determined to write a book and set up this company as a platform to coach and guide men through fundamentals that can change their lives. I wanted to create a brand that men can be proud of being a part of.

Through my coaching and guidance, I want you to attract and date more women, get an ex back (or find someone better suited to you), or re-attract someone you might have pushed away. If you are currently actively dating, or in a relationship or marriage, I want to enhance your dating and relationship skills.

I want women in your life to view you as a strong and centered alpha male. I want you to have the best quality relationships with partners who have the best qualities.

I will help you master the fundamentals of how attraction works and help you master yourself, both physically and mentally, as a man.

I want to enable you to move with purpose and passion in pursuit of your own life’s mission. I want to help you create the freedom to live the life you want.

I will teach you the principles and mindsets you can apply to succeed in your life, from your physical well-being, to wealth creation and growth, to attracting women and negotiating for the best quality relationships.

Together, we will ensure you build a position of strength in your life and master how to reflect a position of strength to get what you want.

The mission here is for you to become and stay a 360 Alpha, with 360-degree self-fulfillment, and enjoy the ultimate quality of life now.